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Posted by Kate McLaren etc (U2202067) on Saturday, 18th December 2010
...Never wanted to
What am I to do?
Can't help it...
, in reply to message 1.
Posted by Hazel Wooley (U2338026) on Saturday, 18th December 2010
Ooh, you've made my day, DD. Go for it and enjoy the journey.
Really chuffed, am I.
, in reply to message 2.
Posted by Kate McLaren etc (U2202067) on Saturday, 18th December 2010
Nah. She's straight, and although I might be able to, um, convert her, she is on the psychotherapy course I'm on and we are specifically not allowed to form relationships other than friendships.
We'll see, if we are both still single in three years' time.
She is soooooo gorgeous, and not just outwardly.
Coo.
, in reply to message 3.
Posted by Kate McLaren etc (U2202067) on Saturday, 18th December 2010
And she's twenty years younger than I am and by the time the course ends I will be 56...
< rushes out to acquire miracle anti-wrinkle potions >
However, let us just celebrate the gorgeosity of gorgeous people.
, in reply to message 4.
Posted by Hazel Wooley (U2338026) on Saturday, 18th December 2010
>However, let us just celebrate the gorgeosity of gorgeous people.<
With you there, sister. So lovely to find a kindred spirit, so I wish you happy times to come.
, in reply to message 1.
Posted by carrick-bend (U2288869) on Saturday, 18th December 2010
People should be like moths round a flame towards you, DD!
Knowing tha your relationship will be fettered for a while would be strangely liberating for me, I think.
Hope you both have a satisfying 3 years of deep friendship.
, in reply to message 5.
Posted by Kate McLaren etc (U2202067) on Saturday, 18th December 2010
Isn't it odd, although I would love her to be my...whatever word you want to choose, I really enjoy watching her interacting with other people, and seeing other people think she is gorgeous. I remember the same thing with my ex. And, please note, I believe in monogamy. I just enjoy watching people appreciate a beautiful person.
Now tell me to shut up, because even were this to come to something, it would not be for a long time, and someone will snap her up long before then.
, in reply to message 7.
Posted by posh_scouse_pinnedwithpride (U2514024) on Saturday, 18th December 2010
Have a good drool sweetheart. And she's probly not good enough for you anyway. [I knows, cos I've met you]
, in reply to message 8.
Posted by Kate McLaren etc (U2202067) on Saturday, 18th December 2010
oh, she is.
wibble
, in reply to message 9.
Posted by posh_scouse_pinnedwithpride (U2514024) on Saturday, 18th December 2010
ooOOOoo, Drysherry Dyke with wibbles.
, in reply to message 10.
Posted by Kate McLaren etc (U2202067) on Saturday, 18th December 2010
Posh, there is no answer to that one except
Snork!
, in reply to message 11.
Posted by Hazel Wooley (U2338026) on Saturday, 18th December 2010
I'm rather envious of your (as yet) unrequited love, DD. That wonderful butterflies in the stomach feeling, feeling that the world is full of rainbows. So lovely.
Off now to skip up the road with the dawgs.
Got a lovely, warm feeling reading this DD.
Hope your wishes come true and until then, enjoy the feeling.
Hugs.
marmie
, in reply to message 13.
Posted by Kate McLaren etc (U2202067) on Saturday, 18th December 2010
And she is a folk singer, among other things.
< swoon...thud >
Now I'll stop, before I give away any more.
, in reply to message 14.
Posted by ruralsnowflakebliss (U8131914) on Saturday, 18th December 2010
Good luck DD
Sometimes, unrequitable love is best, because it doesn't get tarnished by reality.
, in reply to message 16.
Posted by plum the depths (U5587356) on Sunday, 19th December 2010
Yes, Bearhug, you have a point.
Just wanted to say that I'm very pleased you can feel this way again after all you have been through, DD.
I was going to say enjoy the ride but somehow that was not the sentiment I wanted to put across.
Enjoy the feelings of infatuation, it is rather special. I'm glad to see it has put a smile on your face. I can see all this through the ether.
, in reply to message 17.
Posted by willywoanty (U14258512) on Tuesday, 21st December 2010
just a small observation, DD.
Love isn't, and shouldn't be bound by rules.
, in reply to message 18.
Posted by Kate McLaren etc (U2202067) on Tuesday, 21st December 2010
Well unforch it is, if you have undertaken to do a psycho-course in which you are verboten to engage in Hungarian translations with another member of the group. The question is where friendship ends and Hungarian translations begin.
But anyway, she's straight, right?
, in reply to message 19.
Posted by Auntie Prue (U14585893) on Wednesday, 29th December 2010
I am sure you know how to behave nicely, DD - and I hope you enjoy the friendship as much as is possible. You wouldn't be the first or last to have to subdue feelings in order to make the most of things.
So sorry it isn't entirely what you would wish for though.
Best wishes
But anyway, she's straight, right?
Ìý
DD - have arrived at your thread late, as haven't been in TVH much lately.
All I can say is, as I get older, I have notcied that the gay, straight anywhere inbetween thing is not at all clear cut. People fall in love with people, and it doesn't always fall into neat categories for everyone.
This may be true for the object of your affection.
The "not having relationships" rule does sound a bit of a nuisance though !
But so glad to hear your heart is still open to these feelings.
Happy 2011.
dondy
A close female relative has been in a very strong, happy relationship with a woman for about ten years. We finally managed to have a long 4-eyed talk a year or so ago and she said that she doesn't see herself as gay but simply that the person she loves happens to be a woman. Having known her all her life, I know what she means by that. She had been married for about 15 years before she committed herself to what really does seem to be the love of her life. Despite all the problems involved it has turned her life around in an altogether positive way.
, in reply to message 21.
Posted by Kate McLaren etc (U2202067) on Monday, 3rd January 2011
But so glad to hear your heart is still open to these feelings.Ìý
Quite so, which is why I posted this not-entirely serious thread...anyone who is concerned, this is not, could never be, will not be, anything but a friendship - but that doesn't mean that I can't appreciate her utter gorgeousness.
, in reply to message 23.
Posted by Ceres Daughter (U2231349) on Monday, 3rd January 2011
DD
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How lovely - and utter gorgeousness in anyone of whichever gender, is always to be appreciated.
As for the 'rules' of your course - surely 'friendship' is a relationship? I certainly feel that way about my deep friends....
Such a lovely warm 'wibbley' feeling - enjoy - what a great way to start the New Year - and how great to know that after all you have been through that you are still able to feel the excitement.
CD
, in reply to message 24.
Posted by Ceres Daughter (U2231349) on Monday, 3rd January 2011
reposting in the hope that I have got the method for posting quotes correct this time!
this is not, could never be, will not be, anything but a friendship - but that doesn't mean that I can't appreciate her utter gorgeousness.Ìý
How lovely - and utter gorgeousness in anyone of whichever gender, is always to be appreciated.
As for the 'rules' of your course - surely 'friendship' is a relationship? I certainly feel that way about my deep friends....
Such a lovely warm 'wibbley' feeling - enjoy - what a great way to start the New Year - and how great to know that after all you have been through that you are still able to feel the excitement.
CD
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