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Forced marriage activist: “change is really slow”

Jasvinder Sanghera has been disowned by her family because she refused a forced marriage

A campaigner against honour-based abuse has told HARDtalk that more needs to be done to “shift a culture and a mindset” which enables forced marriages. Jasvinder Sanghera successfully campaigned to make forced marriage a specific offence in UK law, having fled her home aged 16 to avoid one.

Speaking to Stephen Sackur, Sanghera spoke of how she is still seen as having “shamed the family” and remains disowned more than four decades later. Her sisters “still refuse to acknowledge” her and she only learned of her brother’s death via social media. Sanghera insisted that honour-based abuse “is not part of somebody’s culture” and urged British schools to do more to tackle the issue.

Sanghera says that when she started campaigning “nobody was talking about this”, but that the legislation which has been passed is “acting as a deterrent”. Despite this, so-called “honour killings” still occur in the UK, such as the murder of Somaiya Begum despite her supposed protection under a forced marriage prevention order.

Nevertheless, Sanghera insists that legal changes, such as raising the age of marriage to 18 in England and Wales, send out a “strong message”. She describes the “the younger generation” being emboldened by the law when they “negotiate with family members”, warning them that they could “go to prison”. Even so, she acknowledges that “change is really slow” and that her late mother, who was her family’s “gatekeeper of abuse”, could not be convinced to alter her views.

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